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Carol Perkins: The Oldest

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By Carol Perkins

Some days I wake up "blue," and some days I wake up with the sunshine on my shoulders when the sun hasn't come up. I'm finding out that others have that same story.

On those "blue" days, I feel sad before my feet hit the floor. When Guy asks me why, I can't answer him. "It's just a feeling." One example that happened this week was on the day of my oldest grandson's birthday. Luke turned twenty-three. I'll explain.


The day he was born, I rushed from my classroom, broke the speed limit on the way home, and loaded the car for Texas. We drove for two days, seventeen hours, grateful that he was healthy. Lucas Andrew Perkins. Andrew came from our son, Jonathan Andrew Perkins. What a sunny day.

We couldn't put him down when we got there. Guy walked miles, cuddling him, and I rocked and sang "Zip-A-Dee-Do-Da". As he grew older, he loved "diggers," so we drove him around construction sites in Austin to see them. We stopped at a "digger" store and asked if he could sit on one, but that was a liability risk. We went to the local fire station so he could sit in the fire truck. All of this when he was three!

When he was twelve, he was the first to go on a "grandchild" trip. Just the three of us. When he was eighteen, Guy and I sang the George Burns song, "I wish I were eighteen again." Shocking the entire family. Not so much about me singing, but Papa Guy singing and leading the song. So many memories.

When he turned twenty-one, I gave him (and the other two) a scrapbook of his first eighteen years. As I surfed through pictures from his birth until he graduated, I took a trip "back to the future."

I was blue that morning because I hadn't seen him for months, and I missed him and missed the little boy crawling onto my lap for a story. He's a man now, and our conversations are more adult and more worldly. He is out of college, living on his own, working, and enjoying life. Hours later, when we made our Happy Birthday call, the sunshine flooded over my shoulders even though it was dark outside. John Denver said it best: "Some Days are Diamonds; some days are Stone." This was a diamond day after all, and my pity party disappeared.


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