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Senator Max Wise: Graduating seniors deserve a mulligan

By State Senator Max Wise, (R-Campbellsville)
16th District: Adair, Clinton, Cumberland, McCreary, Russell, Taylor, and Wayne Counties

I come from a family of great golfers, and, to be honest, I am an average to an occasionally lousy golfer. I find myself resorting mostly to golf scrambles wherein my strength lies in contributing the occasional chip shot or putt to a foursome. The saving grace to my game is the comfort of pulling a mulligan. If a mulligan can be secured, I typically use it off the first tee!

Graduating seniors, I wish each of you were given a mulligan over the past three months. Each one of you, and your families, deserve a 'do-over' or another shot from what this virus has taken away. Whether you were a student-athlete, a performer on the stage, a musician, an academic, career/tech-focused, a free spirit, or an introvert... something was taken from you that will never be given back.

I know it isn't fair, and my heart breaks for you. I have felt nothing but empathy for you during this time. COVID-19 is akin to the Kubler-Ross stages of grief...denial, anger, depression, bargaining, and acceptance. You have undoubtedly felt all stages and will continue to as we get through this pandemic together.

In a world currently filled with more questions than certainties, please know that you will learn more from this era than future generations will be able to comprehend. You face adversity head-on. You are maturing quickly as young adults, and I respect you for this. You are growing up in more ways than you could have ever imagined. You have grown closer to your family, faith, and learned substantial life lessons. I understand these are just words, and words alone, but please know that your community empathizes with you as we simultaneously celebrate with you.



As a college and graduate school professor, I always left a challenge for my departing students. Here are just a few notes to consider as you begin your new pathway in higher education, military service, the workforce, or wherever you are led:
  • 1. Constructive criticism is not personal, it's helpful. Advice from a superior or red ink comments from a professor can be life lessons that will benefit you in more ways than one.
  • 2. Own it. We all screw up and make mistakes, but you will learn more from accepting responsibility than by throwing the victim card.
  • 3. Disagree, but with respect. Our society has lost the ability to converse politely and with civility when faced with debate-worthy topics. Be informed, be kind, and be civil.
Like golf, life can be frustrating. Even after years of hard work and patience, 2020 caused many of you to miss out on a final sports season, prom, graduation ceremony, and the like. You absolutely deserve a second chance to experience those moments, but there is strength and admiration in not taking a mulligan and playing it as it lies.

Class of 2020, I commend you for your perseverance as you've adapted to these challenging circumstances. Your graduation is genuinely celebrated, and I encourage you to hug your loved ones and thank a teacher or staff member for getting you to this point.

Congratulations to each of you on your accomplishments. I wish you nothing but the best in your future endeavors.



This story was posted on 2020-05-18 17:28:57
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